There’s a difference between STABILITY and SECURITY. Stability says “I like it here. I’m comfortable here. I’ll fight to stay; I’m not leaving. Security says, “I am internally free. I feel safe as long as I am with you and together we can go anywhere.
I used to hate when people said the phrase “keeping up with the Joneses”. I am not a competitive person and I am uncomfortable when people try and compete with me or what God’s doing in my life; mostly because I’ve experienced so much jealousy and sabotage from others over the course of my life.